i have this beautiful little girl that by the grace iof god was givin to me on february 6,2005. i lost a baby at the age of 17 during my 8th month of pregnancy. that was one of the hardest things for me to cope with and i am still try to do so. she would be 5 years old this year. i now have a 3 1/2 yr old, breigha. she is my world and i would do anything for her, when i first had had her i was so paranoid that something was gonna happen to her. i nrver wanted to let her out of my reach. adn up until her 3rd birthday this year i was the most paitient parent i know. but i think she done skipped the terrible 2's and went to the 3's. she makes messes, she's staring to back talk, she pretends that she doesnt hear me when i'm talking to her, and worst of all she has the biggest fits i have ever seen. she screams, yells, cry's, and she will do all of them until she gets her way. i discipline her all the time. time outs work alot better then anything else. i make her sit in there for 3 1/2 minutes and the more she vries or moves the longer sdhe has to sit there. and after it's over with i take her to the couch and we talk about why she got put in time out to begin with. and for those vwry few miutes, she's great. the perfect child. until she decides to act out again. i feel like it's all a waist of time. what am i doing wrong???